Sometimes I hate my mom, one of the main reasons is that she’s not considerate, she invalidates how i think and feel, and she doesn’t try to understand my pov. I am currently in grade 11 meaning im 1 year away from college. And my family is not very poor but we have enough money to get by, buying necessary things and sometimes buying what we want. I’m sure my mom is old-fashioned, she constantly pressures me to do good in school, btw we live in an asian household. Because my family is not that rich me and my siblings rely on scholarships or free education, currently me and my sister are in a scholarship and my mother keeps reminding me that i NEED to pass a college scholarship that gives stipend to students who do well in school. My sister passed that so she has her own money, now my mom is pressuring me to absolutely pass the same scholarship. I am not super intelligent but i consider myself somewhat close to intelligent. I hate how my mom makes it seem like if i dont pass the college scholarship, my life is set for failure or downhill. I understand where she’s coming from that we don’t have enough money to pay for college tuition but i wish she didn’t have to pressure me. I am already really stressed with high school as it is and even though i am diligent, my mom invalidates my complains about how hard is school is. I hate her for that. I want to escape her some day. It’s just too much for me, I wish she would be more considerate and nicer to me, i dont ask for too much. Just wish that i could be enough.