My boyfriend is a workaholic, and we only have s** like 2-3 times a month because he’s either working or “too tired to even think about s**”. I know he is a hard worker, but I can’t help feeling rejected and end up wondering if there’s something wrong with me/him/both of us. Additionally, we rarely do anything together as a couple, for the very same reason: too much work, too tired…

I cheat on him with my ex, with whom I lived for two years, and we meet once or twice a week. I wish we could go back together, because we still love each other, and our break-up was totally stupid. If someday we decide to give our relationship another chance, I will dump my current boyfriend’s a** with no second thoughts…