I wish my mother and sister would quit taking advantage of me and quit using me as an ATM. I try to help them with everything because I feel so guilty that they are raising my son but I wasn’t ready to have a child. I used two methods of birth control (pill/condom) and still got pregnant… when I tried to give him up for adoption because I knew with work and college I wasn’t ready my mother insisted she would raid him until I could and let me still be mom. Now she holds him over my head and pretty much bullies me until I give her every penny. It is causing issues with my marriage and most days I dread getting up or hearing the phone because it will just be more she expects.