I’m a 17-year-old girl and a part-timer at an OB-GYN clinic. Today I saw my ex best friend. She broke my heart, once as the girl I loved and once as my friend.
The latter was a slow process. I still liked her but was fine with being friends. Then she started falling into deep depression. We tried to help her but she refused to be helped, and tried to heal her depression by making boyfriends online. She sent nudes five times and got blocked by the guy right after four times. She was 14. The last guy didn’t block her and they started online dating and we warned her about the guy but she just wouldn’t listen. Her depression did not improve and I realized how unfair and toxic this relationship was. I had my own mental health problems to cater and it was always about her. It wasn’t her fault. I believed she truly cared about me but I had to put on a fake persona to interact with her normally and we grew more and more distant. I finally decided to block her on all social media, blacklist her number and throw away everything she gave me when she called me a b**** for telling her to be more cautious about her boyfriend.
I didn’t mean to but I overheard the conversation when she was meeting the doctor. Her period was late and she just got dumped.