Blowing off Steam
Husband comes home at 9pm, stays up till 2-3am, then complains about not getting enough sleep. Specifically, he complains about it when I need him.

What I want to say to him:
No s*** you’re tired, you stayed up all night like a dumbass. That’s not my fault, you know you have responsibilities and promises to keep. We have a two year old. You have never took her potty training in the morning and hardly ever help potty train. We had plans to go out, and you stay up on the night before, knowing that. Making me the one who has to get everything ready to go! And you laying in bed because you’re tired. F****** a******. Maybe plan your free time better, which I suggested as a fair middle ground. Why the f*** haven’t you budged? I f****** hate always meeting you all the way. You never meet me half way. It’s immature and unattractive. I lose more and more respect for you every time you do it, and I hate that I do.

I’m not giving you the benefit of the doubt anymore, and I really wish you could see the value of that. I’m not going to take care of two kids. Grow up and stop waisting my time and energy.