To the person calling catfish, tbh, that person sometimes seems like they sound like me at one time long ago, tryng to get 1 woman who ghosted me after 3 years of real geniune closeness. The difference between me and this person is I never toom it outside of email directly to her, never on an internet forum, and I never talked about it to anyone in real life either.

There are times I think this person was tryng to catfish someone using me, I used to say that a lot to “really”, “I really did love you” its almost spooky, its so spooky I wonder if this is another one, same woman, her being the sadistic b**** she is showed it to this person, all my pain, and this person thinks “well thats what he did, and she will never get over him, he is #1, Im gonna be more like him and she wont forget me…” in which case no, thats not the way it works, its deeper than what I say and it cant really be replicated, its like saying I want the same rainfall that happend on that day with ever of those trillion x 10000 rain drops to fall in exactly the same way they did that day, it cant be duplicated, theres too many factors and timing. Im me for many reasons that also cant be duplicated in a controlled way. I have and have had quite a bit of good s*** too, people want it. Also I’m a man, havent had any contact with her in 15 years, and I think this person is a girl.

As far as catfishing goes when it comes to me, I would hope that certain women especially know are intelligent enough to know how to determine if its actually me the are talking to. There is many things that they could ask that only I and a few other “out there” people would know the answer to. They could be sure. I remember everything. Every-fuxking thing.