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Wby would you end up in an open relationship?

Trust me I know its slim pickins out there for even so much as a decwnt woman, inside and out, personality, beliefs, attitudes, looks, it all matters. Ive had my fun, but at this point, Im better off, most people are better off alone than with the wromg person for themselves.

The key, and I know this, the key to living like that with that kind of attitude, is to be free of an attachment, including past, and dont ever think with your d***. Once you are fee of any attachment, and by that I mean even woman from your distant past you may have in your head or be hanging onto in one way or another, f*** I realized within the last decade or so that I spent my entire life at all times with this burning spot for something I wanted but couldnt have for one reason or another OR I had something but it was completely painfull and involved more sufferng and anxiety than any good. Once I got away fron all of that, and it was hard, I had a lot to get past, sometimes you need to juat separate yourself from everything and everyone just to recover and get past it all. Could take years to end up clean. 5 years, more, but when yo do get there, you can look at s***, people, relationships, with a take it or lave it attitude and its no big deal. Then you can do casual or friends with benefits, or whatever and you can keep an open mind, but at the same time see things for what they are and have the confdence to know what you want, what you should invest your time, emergy into and how much and you can easily detatch from it too, or have nothing to do woth it no matter how hot it is in one way or another.

You need to have rules for yourself. Open relationahip? Thats one of my hard “no”.
and a person could say “I’ll do it anyway and not tell…” and yeah you can, but I’m watching you and when I find out, not if, but when, I’ll call it and we’ll never have anything to do with each other. Actually even thinking about it, the topic is a deal breaker. No. Thats goodbye. Nope, and you need to be able to not have s** with it if its wrong for you, if it comes down to that. All or nothing and you cant be ruled by your d***. Some women believe they can rule gius, especially a guy with money by their d***. They believe the s*** a woman has s** and if a man (whether they are actually attracted to them or not, these women could find them to be repulsive turds with no redeeming qualities but their wallet)wants s**, he better hand over the cards. Its an agreement, not love You need to say no to that.

Bisexuality is another one. Men and women are different. Very, verry different. I dont believe a person who likes both can stick with one forever and be monogomous. They will always want the other and that leads to a lot of b******* especially if it happens too late. No. Monogomous straight relationahip, or nothing.

I’m old fashioned. I also realize these rules drastically limit my options in 2020, along with tons of other tbings. Thats alright though, nothing is worth the b******* of a bad connection. I know that. Not a thing.