I’ve been married for 17 years. My wife pretty much stopped having s** altogether about 15 years ago. As a result, I’ve had an ongoing affair with a former coworker for a number of years. It’s not that I don’t love my wife. She’s a great person and a really good friend, but she just doesn’t want to have s**. Ever. I tried for a long time, but if you get told no enough times, you finally give up asking. I feel guilty about the infidelity, but I also don’t think that I should have to live a sexless existence.
