k carey, without my consent and raped me (vaginally and a***). I took too long tell anyone due to having a collapse and amnesia and he was trying to stalk me. at the time I did not report it, but told a number of official officers from govt to work and friends in 2003, because I felt stupid for allowing it to get so out of control. I know that he has manipulated and tricked other women and he’s psychopathic. I thought I got him out of my life. should I change address and phone numbers. he had a network of bullies tracked me down. I report him to police my life. I don’t like him getting away with the way he treats women, I have reported him many time so that he will be stopped? there is no excuse for r***. Ever. He is obviously a very abusive man and I was not responsible for his appauling behaviour.
The reporting rates for r*** and s***** assault are very low for as many people share the same fears.
I know it is the individual victim/survivor’s decision whether they report or not and I gave other statements to the police, living in hope that they may have received from other victims of this man which may help police with an investigation. It may be fair to say that this is quite likely to result in him being ‘stopped’. getting away from him completely feels the better protection and it would provents re-traumatised to never being near him or his abusive group.