I am IN LOVE with my bestfriend who loves me just as her friend,iv tried to move on but i cant seem to do ,iv tried to let go of these powerful feelings that i had since i knew her and could no longer deny after kissing her,i dont want to risk our friendship cuz its simply the best thing that ever happend to me ,she keeps me holding into this life! sooo i try all the time but it gets extremly hard when she becomes close to me as i get hurt as i know she doesnot want me,,she never loved me and fallen for someone els just when i was about to to tell her she v told me ! you can only imajin how was it espacially that i had to see them togather .Although they have brocken up it breaked my heart to see her so sad,she cryed on my shoulder and i was crying cuz i was JEALOUS and it killed me that shes sad and fallin for someone that hurted her.now that shes over it or moved on i have NOT still ,i have to be silent and keep it to my self cuz its not what she wants and i really care and dont want her to loose her bestfriend,,what should i do!!!!
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ohh hang in there
What is getting to you is the fact that you 2 got off and she completely got over it & isn’t clinging onto it. If she was holding onto it, you would’ve told her that your friendship is best thing that ever happened and you should leave it at that. You’re a douchebag, just like the rest of them.
i think u should tell her because iam sure that she loves u 2 but she is scary to loose ur friendship too
well like this site says ! simplyconfess dude ! tell her .. and go with the flow i’m sure you’ll both figure something out..
You’re an asshole. I know how guys like you operate! You just want to stick your junk in anyone’s trunk, even if it destroys an amazing, hard to find sort of friendship. I hope you’re dick falls off soon!
fuck you it is not about sex its about love ! you wouldnot get it but so you know iv chosen to move on and still hide it from her cuz i do care and love her:(
Let’s see how long, you will let your brain/heart make decision before you give upperhand to your dick again.
Havent u been in love before! you cant control it, it is not lust what i am talking about! love is what i have for her ,i am crazy about everything about her ,her eyes,smile and mostly her heart and mind! yes i have chosen not to tell her but thats only because i am trying to be a good friend just like her.i love her more than anything !
I have been in love with 2 bestfriends and both dumped me in most brutal way, guys just can’t believe when a girl is nice to them and then all they want to do is poke her with their dicks, after that they think things can just go back to normal. I am 100% sure had she wanted to interpret kiss as more, you would be the one turning her down, and saying your friendship is too precious. But its too late you stuck your tongue down her throat.
Oh and you don’t know how many times I heard the line about liking her mind and heart :p (its classic), but matter of fact is, if you didn’t like her ass, you wouldn’t feel that way about her! And also part where guy does all this for good of a girl is another epic saga!
ok at least now i know where you coming from ,you r generalizing your experience you see i am in your shoes basically my prob is that i love her i do,if she would have loved me back that would be a dream coming true ! but she did not !! im the one who got dumbed you know!!!!
You would actually have to be together to get dumped, you weren’t together. Me and those guys on the other hand gave “relationship” a try, but they were shitty, extremely brief flings, that I wish I never endured.
yeah i am sorry for you ,abviously your still hurt it must have been hard,its extremely hard for me too but i am doing it ,i gave up i did,she is my best friend and thats it.
Sounds to me that you guys have something worth holding on too. It will just take some time bro. Have a beer smoke some weed and maybe with your freinds help you can find the next relationship that more than likely will end up with someone not being happy. Sorry I’ve just went through my own shit AGAIN and Im just fucked now when it comes to trusting and having faith in anything meaningful.