So basically my dad has this problem where if he gets even a little annoyed or mad, he yells. And i mean really yells. This has been going on for as long as I can remember ( since I was 2) he got it from his step-dad. He’s so hurtful and I know in the end he doesn’t mean it but it still hurts. I’ ve seen my mum cry too many times. But this is also about my mum. She’s a bit passive aggressive. So my brother leaves for University tomorrow morning and i’m a bit stressed so i’m moody and I know that. But when people point it out I get mad. Like for example my mum was telling me how I never help her clean, But i’m literally always cleaning when I can and I admit I could help more but i’m moody and stressed like I said I just want to sit down chill with my brother and go on Twitter. So when my mum says that stuff i act like my dad and I hate it. But I’M STRESSED. So i asked my dad a simple question of why we cant leave with my brother and help him get settled down for Uni instead of letting him go by himself and us leaving the week later. So you have to know this, I have plans the 30th. I’ve been planning this for a while with a friend and I was really looking forward to it. Well he gets mad (or annoyed can never tell with him.) and starts “raising his voice” and blah blah my mum was there by the way. And i said “Why are you rasing your voice ?” (Because he’s not yelling he’s “raising his voice”) So he prefers. And he said “Because you’re so annoying!” and all this other stuff and it genuinely hurts because I do feel annoying at times that’s why I don’t talk to people. And my mum just said “you don’t have to yell” which made him even more mad and so I kind of just walked away and cried a little bit lol but I was hoping my mum would come get me. After a little yelling I heard her come towards my room. I was getting happier knowing someone cares but she just said “You better get your clothes off my bed before your dad gets mad” And also she said ” See what I have to do for you. I stick up for you and all he does is yell at me.” So nope no comfot like always. I’m used to it. Instead of getting upset I got my clothes off their bed and came here. Yup I NEED HELP please
