Wow that’s a lot of dislikes.

It’s gospel people. Its just one of those sad but true things in life. It’s about accepting the truths we all need to confront in life.

Obviously some people are not strong enough or intelligent enough to see things that way though. I watch this real life forensic files crime shows on HLN, and the murders for this kind of s***, not being able to realize when something is wrong, gut instincts, see exactly where its going and let go as early as possible before you really see the s*** fly.

It’s pretty easy, by people get hung up on 1 person and they don’t want to let go. It gets messy. Ugly, and all I’m saying is people need to realize you can not change what people feel or believe. That goes both ways. You can’t force a person to just not do certain things theyy want to do or not be around certain people because you don’t like them. Those people could try to do what you want for a while, but the thing is they end up just going through the motions. Their heart wants what you don’t want them to have or be around, or drag back to you. She’s going through the motions, but she doesn’t believe it, and then shes either doing jt anyway behind your back, and keeping it, or she’s really unhappy, resenting you because remember, you, as 1 person, can not compare to everything you expect her to give up. And you’ryou’re not wrong either

Then you flip the coin and you can’t change the way you feel either.

A smart logical strong person, not thinking with their p**** says “we are incompatible. No hard feelings, we can’t see each other anymore. Goodbye!”

It just makes sense. You can’t force someone to avoid something for your sake and they can’t expect you to be alright with it either. You should never put yourself out there as important enough to expect someone to change in big ways for you either. They need to want to. I will absolutely change for what I believe is worth it. If I don’t see it worthy….. It’s fuming over