I was s******* molested last year. I am only 13 years old. I dated him and when he touched me, I didn’t even want to be there. I hate him so much! What the hell did I see in him? Why did I even let him kiss me? I feel so dumb having him stick his tongue down my throat and try to hide it a year later. Only my ex-best friend knows what he did. And every day I pretend to be okay with her so she doesn’t tell my boyfriend what happened.
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Your boyfriend shouldn’t care what happened to you a year ago, should he? I mean, of course, he should and he should feel bad about it and try to make you feel better. But it shouldn’t come between your relationship.
T.A.
The ex-bestfriend issue. Been there, experienced that, done with it. Forget about your ex-best friend first of all. Don’t be okay with her. Don’t kill her but just ignore her is what I mean. You shared a secret with her and if she shares it on, then thats her issue and that makes her clearly a bitch and exactly another good reason why she is now your ex-bestfriend. So forget her.
You experience in sexual molestation is sad but shouldn’t be a burden that you keep hidden. I’m not saying spread it around but if your boyfriend asks you about it, don’t feel shy to share. You were not at fault at all and you should having nothing to hide or be scared about. If he gets angry at the guy then good. If you’re scared he gets angry at you, means he’s blaming you for what happened. So clearly he’s mentally fucked up and you shouldn’t be with him.
What happened is not your fault so please do not be scared.
Lilith
Thank you so much, I’ve been worried about this so much lately and nobody has ever given advice to me like that! Thank you!! 🙂