I’m a lesbian but I went through a phase where I was basically trying to make myself be straight and I tried hooking up with a guy, it didn’t feel right but I tried to make myself carry on, he wanted to have s** and I let him put it inside me but I really didn’t want to so I made him stop straight away and after that experience realized I was definitely gay. But does that count as having had s** with a guy? because my new girlfriend asked me if I’ve had s** with a guy and I’m not sure if that counts and she’s making a big deal out of wanting to know.