I have been in love with my best friend for the past 4 years (most of my life) and I have not told anyone. I had the opportunity to be with him, he confessed he liked me… but I was too afraid to say the feeling was mutual. He is now dating my friend and I just wished I told someone about my feelings so this situation would be avoided. If my friend or him knew about my feelings I would never be stuck in this predicament.
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Tell them. Whatever the result may be, its better than a life of regret.
True, but my friend is the happiest she has been in a while so I feel that I would sacrifice her happiness for mine. If I ruin their relationship the chances of him being with me decreases. I know my friend will probably break up with him in a month, but this time I feel she has genuine feelings and it will last longer. I would rather wait and have a better chance, than rush it. I honestly feel that I am too young to deal with a relationship, but I cannot stand the feeling of him with someone else. I should be happy for them, and I am, but I also feel annoyed by my stupidity….
Or is a case of you now want what you cant have?
I have felt this way for a long time, but I never acted upon my feelings for him. I have always wanted him but never asked… I have more regret of not acting upon it and bringing this situation upon myself than actually not having him as mine
Your best friend and your friend will have a great time together since one of their parents will have to drive them to wherever they want to go. They’ll probably spend most of their time playing video games. You’re not missing out on much.
true lol, but we are already doing that, as I mentioned he is my best friend… I feel that the label will assure that when the time comes he will be there for me
I agree with you. Hopefully next month, you can be doing the same things with him, but as a couple.