on one hand I don’t understand that some people think I was gay. but I guess in other ways I might seem reluctant to do s** with anyone so I really had no idea of s***** orientation anyway other then childhood, or emotions. then a guy told me that if I emotionally loved a guy that ment I might not need s** with him because he thought it was best to get a mixture of needs from different people. he wanted to be emotionally intimate with me but s******* intimate with another woman. then he told me that because I was a virgin that ment I might be a gay and that because I dressed feminine, the more feminine I dressed ment I was more likely to be gay. this made me feel confused. I just don’t care how I dress and I know it does not mean I am gay or straight or none of the above.