Update on best friends daughter.

This is a reply to someone specific, but what the hell. I don’t know why I am even bothering trying to reach people who can’t be reached, but to those who care, and understand.

Absolutely not. I am not attracted to her romantically or s*******. But she is a cool person. There is nothing wrong with seeing that. I can’t stand people who automatically think it just HAS TO BE s*****, because no, it doesn’t. I’m sorry that you never knew anybody trustworthy, but I am. Also, if you actually read everything I’ve written instead of making false assumptions about something you clearly don’t know anything about, then you’d know that I haven’t discouraged her from doing anything. I just pointed out that all teenage boys are raging hormone sticks, and that I do, and always will think it a bad idea for girls and boys of that age to be unsupervised.

This isn’t because of her ability to say no, but because some boys don’t understand that word.

Just to clear things up, don’t you DARE question my relationship with her father. He knows me as well as I know him, and there is a reason we are best friends. I have NEVER betrayed his trust and NEVER will, so get off it. If he sees no harm in our friendship, then neither do I. Period.

But if all you can think about is s***** things, then maybe you are the one with the problem. You don’t seem to think that any adult can be trusted, so then why the f*** do we let them teach our children in school, make our food at restaurants, or protect our nation?

The fact is, children are the ones not trustworthy, which is why they require adult supervision you moron. But you go ahead, trust your teenage daughter to hang out with a boys all the time and see what happens. The fact is that they all experience temptation, and most of them don’t have the control to resist it yet, which is why there are many things minors are not allowed to do until they become adults.

You need to learn to have faith in your fellow man, and stop treating age with discrimination. It is a prejudice equivalent to racism. I see her as a niece, and would never engage in anything s***** with her. But like I said before, people like you will always think that friendships like these can only have s***** motivation. Which is untrue. I don’t mind her hanging out with me the same as I wouldn’t mind hanging out with my own kids. Not because of possible s***** attention you idiot, but because she is mature for her age, and can have very intelligent conversations, which is nice.

When I said that in a few years, if she still wanted to date me, that would be considered ok, I didn’t mean because I WOULD date her, I only said that it could be possible. I was trying to point out that it would still be her, but that the age difference between now and then would be enough to change your mind. But you don’t seem intelligent enough to comprehend what I’m saying.

If I didn’t know her father, and several years from now, a 24 year old girl started showing me attention, and I decided to give her a chance, it wouldn’t matter who the f*** it was right? Because she’s 24, not 15. Well, in that scenario, what if it just happened to be the same girl I’m talking about now. What’s the difference?

I’m not saying I would do that, but it’s not wrong to say it’s possible. Just get the f*** over your age-ist stereotypes and drop it. I would never do anything to harm her mentally, physically, or otherwise, and there is no harm in our friendship. End of story. You just can’t get over some b******* stigma that hasn’t prevented anything.

The crime rate, child pregnancy rate, child fatality rate, and many other things have skyrocketed in recent years. Want to know why? Because children don’t value the opinions and advice of adults anymore. They just want to go hang out with their peers and get into s*** that could hurt them or someone else. Maybe if there were more adults like me, willing to fight this b******* stereotype in order to benefit those we care about, things might actually change for the better. So I will never turn her friendship away for as long as she is willing to listen. This is because I will never tell her to do anything that will hurt her, or give her bad advice.

You are sadly laboring under the impression that adults are the ones who can’t be trusted around children, when in fact, it is children who SHOULDN’T be trusted to NOT be under adult supervision. Case closed. Go f*** yourself if you ever think about questioning my morals ever again.