So I posted on here a couple days ago about my roommates daughter hitting on me. For those who remember or commented, I just wanted to say that I did tell her dad about it, and he said he had already noticed the attention she was giving me, but trust me around her. I couldn’t disagree with him in the slightest. He might just be a really smart man after all.

At the end of the day, I am just a friend of her father, and nothing more. But I understand why he allows her to hang out with me now. It may sound quite upside down at first, but it makes perfect sense to me now. Neither of us mind if she hangs out with me because it keeps her AWAY from boys her own age… Think about that for a second if you will. Let it sink in.

I am not in the slightest way interested in her for many reasons, mainly because I seek more mature/compatible relationships. Therefore I will never do anything untrustworthy with her. I am much more mature, and don’t seek to take advantage of her in anyway. But I know from experience, because I was a boy her own age once, that they all only want one thing, s***** experiences, romantic feelings, and emotional highs.

So firstly, why the f*** would anybody want their daughter hanging out with teenage boys? To be honest, I think that is the worst f****** idea ever. Think about it for a second. What happens when teenage boys and girls hand out? S**, mischief, more s**, unwarranted peer pressures of all kinds, just to name a few. So why would I ever recommend to her to go find a boy her own age to hang out with.

I couldn’t care less if she would rather hang out with me because I would actually protect her from those things, and offer constructive advice, not get her pregnant, ask her to try drugs, or teach her bad habits.

So why the f*** are their so many stigmas on things like this? I have a best friend that I trust with my life too, and if my daughter ever started showing him the same kind of attention, I would be grateful. Because I know I would be able to trust him with her. Not like some 15 year old boy who won’t obey anything other than his raging hormones.

Any thoughts on this? Go ahead and pounce. I know you want to. But no amount of attacks or lewd comments will change my mind or my intentions, which are pure. I don’t know what you would call our relationship, but it certainly isn’t romantic or s*****. If it wasn’t for all the stigmatic b******* and completely unwarranted phobias put out by people who use words like ‘inappropriate’, to describe a situation that actually prevents inappropriate activity, I might actually be able to call this relationship a “FRIENDSHIP”. But as it is, I am for some reason not allowed to use that word because I am much older than she is. But, in fact, that’s what it is, a beautiful, and constructive friendship, which keeps her the hell out of trouble.

So, sorry about the length of this rant, but I had to get that off my chest. I have been her dad’s friend for many years, and will NEVER, EVER, harm her. Not in any way. I have only, and will only ever want to help her on her life’s journey, and offer advice to her whenever she asks for it.

So anybody that wants to use the words ‘inappropriate’, or ‘harmful’, or anything else even remotely similar to describe anything regarding her and I. I understand where you are coming from, as there are a few creeps out there who will try to manipulate young girls into giving them what they can’t get from a mature person, but I am not one of those people.

Also, regarding teenage boys. The odds of an underage girl getting pressured into s** by a fully grown male over the age of 30 vs getting pressured into s** by a teenage boy are astronomically in the favor of the teenage boy trying to ‘tap that’ over the grown man. Don’t believe me? Ask any teenage girl, or boy. I bet you they will tell you that they have a friend who has already had s**, or that they are not a virgin themselves. Digest that in your mind for a minute, then go back to the statement, “Encourage her to find a boy her own age to hang out with”, and ask yourself: Why the f*** would I do that?