i told my mother that i was proposing to my girlfriend of 5 years and she was very against it. She’s not talking to my father and is putting a up a front in front of my other family members. I’m getting so stressed about it i just want to cancel all of the proposal plans and just disappear from everyone for the next year. I really do want to marry my girlfriend, but everything is just stressing me out so much and i don’t know if i can take it. I just want everything to go away. i just want all of this to be easy.