When I was about seven or eight, my older cousin who was about 15 or 16, maybe 14, was playing with me and he kissed me on the stomach for like a few seconds. I’ve seen him with kids and he’s always kissing them but never on the lips and he’s never ever done this with me again and he’s been good with me generally.
So was what he did s***** abuse or just normal play? I’ve never really thought about it and I don’t look at him and feel negatively or anything but I need to know.
