Ok, so please don’t judge. I’m a customer at this local Italian restaurant. The manager (Spanish like from Spain and sooo handsome) is married with 3 children but works ALL the time. We have always flirted. But, unfortunately, almost 3 months ago, we took it to the next level. After he closed the restaurant one night, he asked me to have a drink. I reluctantly said yes, and after all his workers clocked out, it was just us 2. We had a bottle of wine, which was amazing, and things started to get heated. He told me his wife changed and wasn’t the same woman he married. I was so nervous because I did not want to be a home wrecker. He told me there were cameras which his wife monitored (CONTROLLING), so he wanted to “show me around”. He leaned in to kiss me, and things took off. We ended up having s** in one of the storage rooms, and it was AMAZING!! This is a big restaurant, so we had plenty of places to choose from. His wife called to say she was falling asleep, and he said he was finishing work, blah blah. I was already feeling guilty. That was a night I’ll never forget. He speaks Italian too :)) Then, I met the wife a few days later. She was very rude to me. I think she saw the spark between us and the way we looked at each other. She was a bit curious to say the least. After, he sent me a text which I saved, explaining that she told him not to speak to me anymore. Only to be cordial. She is a B****! He said that she gained so much weight and treated him like dirt after 10 years of marriage. She didn’t even try to work on it. He was right, she is impossible to speak with, and is the epitome of rude. This was very recent, after sleeping with her husband weekly for the last few months. And, I was ok with everything because the s** was sooooo mind blowing. Then I saw the children, and those 3 are sweeties. I’m torn but he told me that he loves me and once he can leave his wife, that he wants to be with me. She controls everything in his life because her father was the owner. He’s sick of it and feels smothered. She uses a v******* instead of sleeping with him. Strange? Hard to believe that she rarely satisfies him anymore. I know how men are and that was her mistake. He is such a great guy! One in a million. They just have problems. What do I do here? I’m in love with him already, and I can’t see myself with anyone else. Pondering the future. He’s going to open his own restaurant and talks about OUR life together. I am SO EXCITED. What do I do? Please be gentle but he’s done with the marriage. Loves his kids so much. A great dad! Help me out here. Love you, K
