I am a female who is seventeen years old. I grew up being a tomboy and the stage passed because of religious matters, which lasted three to four years. However, after my family and I broke free from the strict standards and transferred, I returned to my ways.

When it comes to clothing, I do not not wear female attire. (I do wear skinny jeans because I am most comfortable in them). Regardless of my bottom-half, I do wear male shirts. Preferably graphic t-shirts, flannel (holes or no holes) and tanks. I usually purchase them in large or medium, so it is easier to have layers. I also wear boxers.

(please do not misunderstand details that might not even apply to my situation).

Lately, I have expressed the dislike of my breasts. Not towards my family or anyone close, no one at all, actually. Yet I do make occasional comments that I could do without them and they do not define my gender with or without them. I mean, I do like being female but I do not find joy in my breasts. I would donate them if I could.

What I am trying to stress is that I am leaning towards gender queer but I do not know how to approach it. I do not plan on having any hormonal changes or removing of the breasts. No one will know that I am preferably gender queer, I just need to do this for myself. Perhaps I will just express this only to online friends. But I need confirmation, that this is what qualifies as gender queer and if not, what.

I need to be okay, I need some advice and support. No, I do not want to tell anyone I am close to, this is for me.