Why cant people understand a relationship is not based on others opinion? There’s two different things. One giving them advice and two just Judging the couple with your irrelevant opinion. What i dont understand is why cant you let me be my own person? I know you are just trying to help me but Im going to have to learn things for the better and for worse because that’s life And you’re not always going to be there for me. Let me like who ever i want to like without you ruining it. Your opinions are knifes that targets my heart. Which becomes very confusing because youre not cupid. The heart wants what it wants and you just have to accept that.