I’m beginning to resent my husband. I blame him for the financial mess we’re in and the fact that I have a six-month old I’m breastfeeding but may have to stop so I can go back to work even though most of the money I will be making I’ll probably have to spend on his four kids because he won’t get a job that will support us all. And I resent him for the fact that he won’t acknowledge there is a problem or talk to me about it and blames me for the fact that he won’t. He reminds me a lot of my ex whom he wooed me away from with his wonderful listening skills. They didn’t last long. Sometimes I think all he wants me for is to fix his messed up family. I resent him for not cleaning up after himself and teaching his kids to do the same. And I resent him for not telling his older kids that he loves them even though I do when they say goodnight to us. I am not happy. And I resent him for proving my mom right.