how did you find all the trivial b*******? wouldn’t you have been a better person today if you really thought it was stupid. you might have left it alone. i would only ever call you unhealthy if you refused to stop contacting me, how you feel and where you spread it, means nothing to me. you deserve freedom. you have it. if you try to monitor me or what i do or what i say, i dont care unless you tell me about it. about how much you looked or what you found. its not unhealthy until you start involving me in your issue.