my friend acts like her boyfriends mother. she controls everyone he speaks to and spoke to me like an enemy the second day me and her boyfriend became friends. she told me to not let her see me interact with him and block him when he came up and spoke to me. i told her I felt she spoke to me wrong and asked her to let me know how she feels instead of treating me like that. she apologized and i left her on read. am i the a******?