She told everyone in her family that I’m not cut. It’s so humiliating. Her mother said, “So I understand Patti is having you circumcised before the wedding”. I was so embarrassed. I had to ‘Yes that’s right’. Then I quickly left the room.
Then her sister brought it up the next day by asking, How close to the wedding day will you be getting it cut and trimmed? How much is going to be taken off?” I told her to discuss that with Patti.
Then Patti told me at the diner table in front of everyone that, “It’s Ok to discuss your circumcision. Everyone knows you are getting cut for our wedding. It will look so nice after all that extra skin is trimmed.”
They are a close family so I guess I’m not going to have any privacy.