When I was 19 I started working as a live in nanny to a nice family with 3 kids
He has since contacted me via Facebook do I respond?
Me: This is about you, nobody else. What do you want for yourself, do you want to reply to him and start another s***** relationship with him, or not, bearing in mind he is married to his wife and he will not be leaving her for you, ever, because it will be too financially costly for him to do that, just for starters and of course, he is a lot older than you, so would you want someone much older to care for, at a time when you should be enjoying your youth in other ways.
You will be “Why buy a cow when I get the milk free”, however, having said that, if I were you, I’d be looking at a “friends with benefits” sort of thing, where you allow him to f*** you for expenses towards your lifestyle or anything else you want, that you can’t currently afford – like rent paid on a flat – or whatever.
Finally, are you in a relationship now and what sort of impact would you, f****** him again, have on that and can you play the s***** part where neither of the men who f*** you, ever know about each other.
In our culture, Nanny’s usually end up in bed with the husband’s of the wives whose kids you are looking after and usually people who can afford Nanny’s are wealthy, have fine homes, drive fancy cars and live a lifestyle neither you or me, can usually afford – so from my point of view, as a dirty minded old male, I would say to you, if it feels right for you and the s** was great last time, go for it – with the conditions I mentioned above, as part of your supernumerary package, as it were.
Good luck and have fun with your life, whatever you decide to do.