Ok I need advice–
so I’m 17 and I’m a virgin (but also confusing sideline, I’m in college because I graduated early, so take that into consideration through this story) I have almost had s** with 2 guys, but wound up just messing around every time. I’m still talking to the second guy I messed around with (I’ll call him C), and he’s also a virgin, but I’ve been talking to this other guy (I’ll call him R) and we have so much more of a connection. I have a really serious feeling that me and R are going to become something of an item, but we’re going on our first date in a couple days. I really don’t want to have to tell another guy that I’m a virgin, and I’m honestly super done with the whole concept, it’s ridiculous how big of a deal the concept of a woman’s virginity is, and there’s this whole stigma to it, I really just want to get it over with honestly. I have the opportunity to go and hang out with C again before I go see R later in the week, should I go and lose my virginity before I go see R or is that a bad idea? I’ve been getting a bit annoyed by C lately, and I don’t think I want a relationship with him, so it might lead him on a bit too much, but it would be pretty easy o ghost him, or maybe try to keep him as a hookup every now and then? I don’t even know anymore, whoops¯_(ツ)_/¯