When I was in high school, one of my best friends was gay, and I was straight. He had told me he found me attractive and we had talked about boundaries. But one day hanging out in his room he proposed to me this “I know you’ve never had a bj, and I’ve always wanted to give one. Is there anyway we can no strings attached try it this one time?”

I of course said no right away, and that he had made me uncomfortable. But for a split second, even though emotionally and physically I’m very straight, getting a free bj sounded pretty damn nice…