Today, I was talking with my cousin, Tanya, with whom I had a kissing affair when we were kids I showed her by text, the photo that I assigned to her contact.
I then asked her if she had any more recent pictures, because the picture I had used was 20 years old. She got a little uneasy upon me asking this and asked if my wife new that I was asking her for a recent picture. I told her that my wife knew that we talked, but didn’t know that I asked her for a recent picture.
I think my cousin though that I still had feelings for her- which I don’t. I just wanted a more recent picture of her. She texted me saying me asking for a recent picture of her made her uncomfortable.
I honestly don’t know what caused her to feel uncomfortable- it wasn’t a weird conversation or thing to ask her. However, I apologized and told her that I would only communicate with her through a group WhatsApp chat we had made, to put her mind at ease.