assuming people have it better then you. blaming everyone else for the reason you dont get who you want. focusing so much on love and being with someone will only hurt you. when you develop yourself, live in the moment and focus on striving for a good future. being content with being single for the time being will give your mind peace and will allow you to find friendships and realtionships more naturally.
when you blame or look at other people and think everyone else is bad and you are truly good, your a nice person why dont you get what you want. you are probably looking into yourself. you are probably not recognising that you may have flaws to improve. you may not truly be as good as you think you are. and thats ok, because as humans being we need to constatly strive for change as a person and society. society definetely has many isssues that need change but constantly blaming others for personal problems and issues without fully evaluating whats causing an issue misses out on seeing if theres something about you need to change first.
we all like to beleive we are nicer then we actually are, but in reality we could be s*****, we could act in ways that cause people around us to distance themselves from us, and not want to have realtionships or friendships with us. always strive to be better people, we all have work we can do.
