The only opinion(s) on looks that should matter, whether it be weight, hair, age, how generally ugly a person is are the people directly in your (real) life.

Anyone else is just in the peanut gallery. Probably bitter about something like the fact that the person doesn’t give hem the ime of day or they are loved and wanted by the person they want.

I hate my ex and don’t find her attractive in any way at all, but that doesn’t mean she isn’t loved and seen as attractive by the people in her life.