you are not nice and kind enough to be anyone’s lesson on not treating people badly. you yourself are the biggest a****** anyone could come across. it doesn’t follow that anyone feels a loss after you have abandoned them, because they simply have the opportunity to see you for who you are because of your distancing them, and see in no time that you are crap to be with, real s*****, once you just take the time to think on it. shut up about your teaching anyone a lesson. the lesson is don’t date jerks in the first place—or don’t date you.