French Supply Teacher here:
First he told me, that in order to engage to me, I would have to get my full driver’s license. Because he lived far away and did not want to move and it would be too much for him to drive me to work. (It is possible to take transit to my work from where I would live with him, but it’s a 2 hour commute early in the morning).
So I get my full driver’s license.
I ask him again how he feels about getting engaged, now that I have my driver’s license.
He says he’s “still uncomfortable about it.” Because I’m a supply teacher and he’s a full time permanent teacher. He says he that if I was to marry him, he’d be paying my way for everything.
Then he says that if we were to marry me, I would have to work on losing weight. (I’m 5’2 and 135 pounds). He says I looked “amazing” the first time he met me but that I no longer am in shape.
So I feel he doesn’t love me and I dump him.
Then, after I dump him, he backtracks on everything, saying:
“You look amazing and I’m so sorry for those comments about your weight. I never said that your salary or job was a problem, I had plans to marry you. I just wanted you to get your own apartment and stop renting a room. I always loved you and wanted to marry you. How could it work if you don’t have a car. I can’t drive you to work. It would be too much for me.”
So yeah. That’s the story.