After they left I went over to my mother’s and r said his old laptop was missing, and it was around the same time that jenn was last over there and

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After they left I went over to my mother’s and r said his old laptop was missing, and it was around the same time that jenn was last over there and suddenly she has a laptop to give to her daughter. daniel also refuses to believe that we do not have his ps4 that jenn had pawned because he enables her, and they think they can just come back here and get whatever stuff they have here. there is nothing here of theirs, and we told them that. dan also said that I went off the deep end on social media, but they were being the bigger persons and not doing anything back. first off, what could they have on me? I let them live there for free, protected my kids, tried to fight for theirs when they refused to, and offered help which they also refused. but if she had opiates in her system she could get in and out of dumpsters just fine where there are some days that I couldn’t even climb on a chair to get something high in my kitchen. this included getting over 700 lbs. of kibble out of a petco dumpster. I know that I couldn’t do that myself but then again there are a lot of things that I can’t do that she can even with her ‘bad’ back.

To the people that donated money to her, I hope that this helps you understand what really happened, and to not give them more money. to those who think that I wasn’t working with cps and haven’t made reports, I have and will continue to do so. right now, my paypal is in a negative balance because she decided to try to use a paypal card she stole from me. thankfully when she tried to take the $300 dollars out of my account we caught it and stopped it, all but that small negative balance has been returned and the police have been notified. the card itself is also canceled and the bank account will be closed soon as well. all passwords have been changed and I now have a mace gun to use to protect myself. and all of this because I have too big a heart and tried to help.

My father-in-law did tell her that if she ever came back without having the money owed to us, he would get involved and he’s friends with most of the state police in our area. I guess you never know what kind of hell that could happen once addiction is involved. we are slowly unpacking, and we are finding more and more things missing, especially canned food and we have no proof on where it went even though I have my thoughts. thankfully most of the things of value are still here, like my mother’s wedding set and other valuables. and I am thankful that we no longer have to put up with lies and addiction. I mean I just can’t imagine what would have happened if these two, pill popping munchhausen syndrome couple had cost us our kids what my husband would have done. a few days ago I got a phone call from their cps caseworker to verify what had happened, where they were, and what the past few months had been like. this is also after i’d already talked to the cps caseworker that we were locally working with that told us basically jenn and dan are lost causes and them remaining in our home would have cost us our children.

If you know an addict that refuses to get help, then walk away. if they are willing to get help, then help them. take them to meetings, take them to a medical care facility. however, the person addicted must want it. look up your local resources with addiction and mental health, but don’t make the same mistakes I did and try to fix someone who is so clearly broken. at the end of the day it could cost you everything., just like it did with these two people.

Edit:

I offered that the cats could remain with us since we love them and the kids love them, and instead of leaving them with us where they would be cared for jenn picked them up, probably thinking that we wouldn’t be there. but our moving crew was at the apartment and she picked them up. a few days ago she posted to twitter that “freyja” the kitten that she picked up thinking was her spayed cat, gave birth to two kittens. her brother however, posted on facebook that the cat had three kittens and only one survived and that all three adult cats and the surviving kitten has gone to the harrisburg pa shelter. I am going to try to get felix back since he is so old and fiv+.

Edit 2:

I was cleaning out my desktop computer and I found the following pictures:

This is jenn going through with draw. she would get sweaty and stink to high heaven. this happened way too often.

Heroin. [censored] heroin. wtf. i’m so glad we kicked her out.

Please, do not donate to these two anymore. do not enable them. their own family has disowned them and things will only get worse. but this is where my part in the story ends. I tried to help. it cost me so so much and i’m free. I will never forget what these two scam artists have done to me and my family. good news is that my fil’s laptop has been found. so that at least isn’t the case of theft in this instance. i’d pity them but I learned a valuable lesson from my ex..”self inflicted doesn’t count [censored].”

And in this case it is 1o0% self inflicted. i’m sorry I let them into my home, and i’m sorrier that I didn’t see it sooner or just kicked her [censored] out when dan didn’t come home that night. but I can at least say that I tried. that I saved myself and my children. that my husband is probably the most amazing person ever and has been with my ever step of the way.

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I wish I had one more day with so many people. One more moment. Damn these lonely last few years.

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Idk if this happens commonly or if i am just very very unlucky. My father passed away 9 years before my mother. When she passed it was time to clean out the home they lived in for over 30 years of a 60 year marriage. My father took his camera with him all over the world in the military. Still camera and 8mm. Boxes and boxes of slides and reels. I simply saved them and set them aside for later. I got time months later and got one of those 35mm slide to jpg scanners and just ground thru them. When i got them all scanned i got a later chance to prop my feet up and go thru them. Amongst all the widespread scenery and travel and cool vintage moments i stumble across pics of my mother. Many of them simple poses in many places, mostly outdoors, she was actually a modestly attractive classic pinup type. But then i run into the lingerie shots. And then the tasteful n u d e s indoors and outdoors. And then the real shocker. On any scale my mother was the classic church going uppity prudish b**** woth zero tolerance for bawdy or suggestive behavior or language. Hell sometimes i would say something crude just to push her uptight buttons. You would not believe how bent out of shape she got when she found evidence of my first s** dream on the sheets. Or at least what i ever saw from her was that way.

But i see hundreds of shots that are full bore graphic. Nothing artful about them. Spread shots, bendovers, hands between her legs, and then actually having s**. But in none of them is my father the man she is havimg s** with. He was obviously behind the camera. Some of them? A minister i recognize because she used to drag me to church all the time. Neighbors or friends of my parents that i remember. . It just kept piling on. Shots of my mother having lesbian s** with my aunt, my father’s older sister. Shots of my mother with other women i dont recognize, shots of my aunt with some of the same women. Shots of my mother with multiple men. Def did not wake up that or any day expecting or wanting to see pics of my mother getting spitroasted or used by a group of men and pretty much looking like she is having a grand time. When i do manage to force myself to power thru them all, hypocrtically, my parents were both moderately racist, but the handful that did have my father in them? He was having s** with a few different women, all african american women, except for one woman. His f****** sister, the same aunt i saw shots of my mother having s** with.

The s***** part was having to go through all of them because i did not want to risk losing family photos or memories or history that were NOT my parents’ s** escapades. At that point i accepted that the stack of 8mm movies might be similar. And i was right. The huge majority of them were my mother and the various random men my mother was having s** with, but some of the men were not in the still shot stack. No decent family movies at all sadly, the whole lot except 3 of the 8mm were either my mother and who tf knows who the men were, or great, a lesbian movie with my same aunt. The 3 exceptions? A mix of my parents doing foursomes with two diff couples. Both of those couples i knew/ remembered as family friends, i had grown up with their kids. In both cases wife swapping with my parents. And the crown jewel…..obviously sarcastically….my dad with my mother and aunt.

Look don,t get me wrong, i am nowhere near a prude, we all have our little quirks and kinks. I am not judging any of them, it was theie thing to do. I confess i had a few queasy reactions because the stills and movies span a time from before i or my sister were even born, to a time when we were mid 30s, which put my parents and aunt in their 70s. Hell i hope i am still having s** when i am that age.

By the time i was done, i had one focus…..there was not a condom in sight in any of it. Was my father actually my father? Is my sister my full sister or half sister? Do i have half siblings i dont even know somewhere? How glad am i that i have never done the spit in a tube ancestry or 23 and me thing, because i do not want to fall into that vortex of doom?