I am in a s***** relationship with my Aunt.She is 20 years older than me and she initiated the affair. We have managed to keep it away from our family problem is she says she is in love with me and wants to come out to the family and live as husband and wife. My Dad will kill me. I love the s** with her but I don’t want to spend my life married to my 45 year old Aunt. I don’t want to hurt her and I don’t want to give up the s**. I don’t know what to do but this isn’t going to end well.