Not so much a confession as life advice for anyone in the dating world.
If they disappear on you, even once, block them.
I give someone a week, give or take depending on individual circumstance then block them.
I like a week because if they were truly interested and they had a life altering experience they would still find time within a week to reach out and explain. I like a week even more because it’s easy to remember.
There is almost never a valid excuse for that behavior and they will keep doing it to boost their own ego.
It’s never about you so don’t feel bad. They are showing you that they are a s***** person.
Blocking is self care in this scenario. If you had feelings, it’s easier to move on than waiting, as well.
Besides they’ll keep doing it to you.
You deserve better.
Someone found me and tried to add me on a messaging app after I blocked their number. They got denied