You’re right. I can’t drop my responsibilities at the drop of a hat for him just because he is a spoiled brat. I need a man who admires hard work, not one who only values one’s ability to obey, and obey quickly like a slave. I love being a man’s slave. But not when it involves leaving responsibilities that belong to me and are mine alone that I need to tend to, or else everything I love suffer. If he doesn’t see the value in becoming a part of the fold I love, protect, and work hard for, he’s got the wrong woman. If I were to neglect what I love, that would mean he too could be dropped like a used banana when something better came along. That sort of selfish nonsense is not for me. I need stability, and something real, not an easy o*****.
