It’s a waste of time. I can always see what’s a waste of time just the same as I can see what would be good for me. I don’t actually WANT anything ATM. I haven’t for a while and because of that alone, I have prospered in other areas of my life.

Sometimes I see it, it builds and I do want it THEN I’ll try. It happens. I’ve felt something both ways before, and waited for an good time to make a move, ask her out and I was literally 2 weeks or a month too late. Someone else got to it first. I’m talking real life of course, what’s right in front of me. Someone else got to it, I accepted it, and that was that. She let me down easy too. Nicely, I accepted it like a gentleman and left her alone but the reason I tried at all was because it was what I genuinely felt was real and 2 way. I know that. She may have even tried harder than me. I am sceptical. It takes a while to win me over. I am watching for genuine interest or signs that it’s all b*******. I’m attractive enough that I can afford to sit back, do nothing and they are ok no t lose interest over night. I can afford to go slow and plan an approach on a woman who is worthy. You can’t pull the wool over my eyes though. Haha! Not at this point in time. I see right through it. I’ve been around the block plenty of times. I know an impossible venture when I see one and I know who will be a problem too. Understand?