My wife denied me s** for almost 2 years straight to the point where I basically just gave up on it. I would occasionally go online and try to find someone to have a dirty chat with but even that well seems to have dried up for me. Her new years resolution was to get the groove back, which of course was just a lie so she could get pregnant, now that she is she expects me to actually still be h**** for her and pursuing s** now after 2 years of rejection and her body getting all fat and unattractive to boot. I told her it’s really no problem and I’m not worried about it, and I mean it. She has no s** drive and just feels obligated to be that way because she thinks that’s what I want from her but it isn’t. I’ve never cheated and have no intention of doing so, people in general irritate me and I’ve learned it just isn’t worth all the trouble and effort, not to mention that every single girl I’ve ever had s** with loses their mind and goes full retard afterwards so I’m not about to bring that into my life and have it destroy my marriage and soon to be family. I know lots of attractive women and I definitely like looking at them and all that, and they know I think so too. If we are to ever be together it will just happen naturally on it’s own. If my wife and I ever get our groove back that would also be nice but I’m never having another child after dealing with this retarded nightmare of a pregnancy so I’m sure that won’t happen because that was the only reason my wife wanted to this year in the first place lol. I have found other interests and avenues to be passionate about, have met some cool people and made some new friends, and really it’s more important to me now than my s** life. I’m going to raise this child on auto pilot, as my wife and her mother are the ones who steer the ship here, so really all she’ll need from me is money and I work so I will gladly provide her and my child with that. In turn I’d just like to be left alone and be allowed to pursue my interests without criticism or interference from her or the kid for that matter. You got what you wanted, I’ve accepted the fact that the things I want just aren’t in my reality, and so I have settled for what I can do rather than what I want to do. It’s all good and it’s perfectly fine with me, still enjoying myself and am happy as can be despite how the situation looks. Is what it is, make lemonade outta lemons, etc……..