I know I’d love to be there for her and let her ask me whatever too. If I ever heard she needed or wanted me, I would be there and I have no expectations or illusions with her either.
It’s not superficial either. It’s a deeper importance to me based on what it is. But it’s also something that is important enough to me, I would never want to smother it or I can’t think of the word for it. I want it to breathe comfortably. It’s real.