You should never sugar coat anything for anyone no matter how poorly they are doing mentally. They need to toughen up. Life’s hard. More often than not it s****. Better to get used to it and learn to live with it so it doesn’t s*** so much.

The better response is to tell them to never place their own happiness into the hands of other people. Never. Accept it, and find your own happiness. Again, never ever under any circumstances rely on someone else to break my you happiness. If you can tell that and have a life is what you make it attitude, you’ll feel better at life. Don’t care so much about what other people think of do. You will get more satisfaction out of people’s reactions when they realize you don’t give a s*** 🙂 especially if you don’t like them. And believe me it really pisses them off. It’s great. Think of yourself like Tommy Lee Jones in The Fugitive.