Im actually not that bothered by my mother either. She’s allowed her husband to mentally abuse and has light me – and now does the same – since I was little.
How is that being a good parent, or even a good human.
I’ve cared for all the elderly in our family as they stop managing themselves, I’ve just decided I’m not caring for either parent. They’ve taken enough of my life, opportunities and possibilities away. Then replaced my dreams with depressing thoughts and ‘you can’t’
Im not a failure, I have everything I need. Unfortunately nothing is ever enough for them.
Begrudging someone with so much less the small things in life is truly sickening.

So they can both f*** off and one of my many siblings that never visits can look after them.