there are plenty of guys…NOT men…a REAL man..takes care of his family. And playing..part time daddy..isnt cool. 19 kids…its not right. I pray those mothers….can find a true father to adopt the kids. Truthfully? you are a waste. Children NEED a father figure. Especially boys. Or they end up in gangs or drug addicted or full of anger and rage at being abandonded by their father. its not right.