I think some women neglect their children to be a part of the economy rat race just to ‘win’ men who then are only there to gleen from them an Xbox machine, a car, a horse or whatever tickles them. Then that man can scoot along when he finds an even more money seeking woman who can buy him more things. It’s all the same. If you have a man who loves s**, he will always be at risk of leaving for some loony who wants to please him more that way too. You can never have someone if you think you can capture them with money or s**. Someone always has more. You are better focusing on what you love and your children than getting involved with those kinds of people that can never be satisfied really. They are an always changing sinkhole with no stability, no longevity. That’s why they are only good for one night man.