I am male and once raped a man. But not all all in a violating or aggr3ssive way or in the conventional sense. He was a coworker than became a close friend and as close friends do, eventually s***** innuendoes and snippets of our individual s***** likes came up. I was already aware of my own occasional dom/sub streaks and had explored them. He made a comment on that theme one day and i admitted the experiences. He was intrigued and asked questions and i was open with him. He said he was envious and hoped to have such experiences some day if he could find a woman into it and that he trusted completely. I rolled the dice and told him that the things he wanted to explore did not require female anatomy and were gender independent. Asked him didnt he trust ne and he thought I qas joking. Months went by and he asked if i had been serious. I told him yes and that i was willing to help him explore submission. More convos more weeks and one day he says he wants to try them. We set a weekend aside and he csme over. The ground rules were laid out for his comfort and limits and beyond touching it was all about sensation experience and being controlled/owned. Nothing homosexual. I told him to undress when he was ready and we would flip a switch and be no strings not friends me dom him sub. I started him out easily and the more he experienced the more he wanted. It stayed within the boundaries. At one point he was bound blindfolded and periods of earmuffs and sensory deprivation. I realized I was enjoying his reactions and responses and he spent the majority of the weekend denied o***** and edged mercilessly. Since we were entering the last afternoon of the experience he desperately wanted to o***** and I wanted him to. I was hungry personally to push him over the brink. But as we talked with him still bound and blondfolded i told him i was going to ruin his o***** at the critical moment and make him squirt helplessly. He asked no but by the time I had by touch driven him into a frenzy he was pleading for any relief. When i pushed him to the brink and removed sensation he exploded and was thrashing despite the ruined release. He had barely stopped shooting helplessly when he was screaming and pleading to do it to him again. I gave him his wish. He was painfully erect and his hips were trying to f*** the air. And i was too into it. I silently took off my clothes for the first time and he panicked when he realized I was naked and on the bed with him. I asked if he trusted me and he said yes. I lubricated him very well and myself, and straddled his hips and he realized when the head of jis c*** slid between my a** cheeks what i intended. I slowly moved up and down teasing him. He was pleading no but his body betrayed him. I leaned down and whispered in his ear….dont you want to experience f****** a virgin a**? It was truthful on my part. I slowly slid down and impaled myself on him as he thrashed and pleaded no but his hips thrust up. When he was fully inside me and i was adjusting to the shock to my own system he was nothing but a hard hungry c*** that knew it was in a warm tight virgin hole. I rode him slowly and there were no words from either of us, just moans and gasps. At last he warned me he could not hold back and i did not.move, I let him c** for real deep inside me. No talking as we eqch caught our breath and I lay beside him just stroking his body. He actually sobbed and when I asked why he said he had never c** so hard. I was way too pleased with myself and worried and embarassed and i simply left him for a moment and came back with warm water and a soapy washcloth and cleaned him. He groaned stunned that his erection returned so swiftly. I gave him the choice of being released and he was silent. Torn. When gave me no answer i thanked him for what he gave me. And then foolishly I blurted out that he had a an incredibly beautiful c***. He was surprised and said really? And i was too into it and simply told him I would prove it. And i spent the next hour worshipping his with my mouth. I gave him the most sensual passionate b******* in history lw while he was still bound and blindfolded. A bit after that i asked what he wanted. He did no5 know. But in his vulnerability he said he was sorry but he needed out of the entire situation and did not want to even look at me. I gave him an easy out of untying him, leaving the blindfold on, and leaving while he pulled himself together and left without having to see or talk to me. Eventually we had to talk about it and he said he sometimes hated me for giving him the most incredible s** while in his view r***** him.

And four months later he showed up on my doorstep drunk as hell wanting to do it all over again. And this time I gave him a period of control which he used to revenge r*** me in my own shower.