About the narcissist nailed it. One of my close friends was in an affair with one from about 2012 til this year. The stories are all the same with what these people go through. A narc is the most evil there ever will be. They’ll come into your life like a tornado with the romance and charm, tear the ever loving s*** out of your existence destroying life as you once knew it and then on to the next. Then they’ll do the same with them all while playing the victim card as if they are totally innocent and have never done a thing wrong to anyone and blaming you and telling how you are the one who did them wrong. They will always tell the new person that you are jealous and obsessed and even stalking them. Use google and type in narcissist triangulation. And if you should ever dare to have the balls to tell the real truth then watch out! They use that as their proof of how it’s you and not them even though you are just telling what they did to you and not the other way around.