I as a man agree. I will usually leave a woman alone who is seemingly happy in her relationship even if I like her a lot. It ends up being a mess all around for everyone, unless you’re not really in it for friendship or love. Then people don’t care.

I don’t like the drama that comes with a situation like that. At all. Not even a little bit. I want none of it. I hate that kind of s*** actually. I don’t play those kinds of games. I don’t get jealous but I also believe whole heartedly that in most cases heterosexual men and women can not be friend’s on a personal level. Someone or both of them, whether they admit it or not, want more. That’s for sure. From a man’s perspective men might pretend that they want to be friends or that they can be just friends, I know that’s not true. They want something more every, single, time. In every case. Even with me, I don’t ever want to be just friends and hang out and talk, I want more. That’s fine and dandy talking friendship, all that, I want that, I am not just about s** but I do always want more, or nothing at all. I just cut the b******* if I can’t see it going anywhere and just leave her alone.et her decide. What she has? Or she misses me. Or if it’s headed down the drama road, she has many moronic girlfriends who I know I will end up getting the urge to f****** strangle. I just leave her alone.

Work friends is one thing, I can be nice, like and be liked by women I work with easily and have no attraction to them romantically in any way. Unless I am attracted to them which is a rare occasion. Not very often but I act accordingly there too.