Narcissism is a learned behavior that comes from the extremes of parenting. The parent was way overprotective and CARRIED THE KID AROUND ON A SATIN PILLOW and made the child believe that they were entitled and turned them into spoiled brats, forgetting you’re raising people to be adults, not children. The parent created the narcissist. Or the parent extremely neglected their child, so they imaginarily put themselves above everybody so that they cannot be hurt; by sailing above everyone where no one can touch or hurt them. The narcissist creates a fantasyland that will s*** you into their suckhole pit, their fantasy that they’re above everyone, the land where putting you down helps keep their fantasy afloat. A narcissist’s victim will be someone who has their own peace and security, the thing they hate. Gaslighting: talk to this threatening person they hate like anything that goes wrong was their fault.